This is quite an interesting 🤨 fact , wouldn’t you say? I would have thought that the less Sex you have the more it builds up and then would come out easier.

This is not the case at all.

Now when it comes to this I’ve done extensive research and well obviously had to experience it for myself as well to see wether it’s true or not.

Something most men don’t know ;woman tend to fake it because either it’s taking too long or she’s just not enjoying it anymore.

So being the curious person that I am, I’ve been on a hunt for a solution to this problem.

I learned something new along the way. Plus , minus 82% of woman struggle to reach the big O.

A lot of the time a guy would be offended or think it must be something he has done or shouldn’t have done.

Well let me share the facts with you that I have picked up along the way.

  • More then 80% of woman have the same problem I have.
  • They can’t cum meaning generally finding it difficult to have an orgasm or just letting go of a certain mindset and this causes them to hold back.
  • This is never intentionally!
  • When there are unresolved issues in a relationship, she might still get turned on, but because things were unresolved it is highly unlikely that she will be able to have an orgasm… this is one major way woman differ from men.
  • Again this is not by choice!
  • Those who just generally struggle to orgasm, regardless of her state of mind.
  • Normally they reach the big O but not just with normal old boring everyday married couple type Sex.
  • Most don’t know why this is an issue.
  • Woman pretend to have an orgasm just so the guy could get it over with for one or two reasons.
  • 1 . She’s not enjoying it anymore because he is not stimulating the right spots, which basically means doesn’t matter how long he tries , it’s never going to happen.
  • 2. He is doing it right but some need it harder, some faster and some the complete opposite….. but this is the secret 🤫 I never knew , that 80% of woman that normally have that issue. Especially when the guy is doing it right. That’s just because of On simple reason.
  • The clit needs more movement and that is it!!!!

So this is my recommendation…. go buy a small bullet vibrator, especially if you’ve never used one before.

Play with it a little bit. Mainly in the clitorial area, get to know how hard or soft you need to push down to actually make you feel that omg 😱 feeling.

If that doesn’t work buy a magic mike.

If you don’t know what that is. There is an image below.

These are electric vibrators that go up quite high and should stimulate even the toughest vj enough to reach that O!

Magic Mike

Why is this you womder? Let me explain. You see woman like me who can’t just cum normally , and they don’t know why or how or whatever the case might be.

The secret is all in the front!

This is what i did:

I went out & bought myself a nice little toy vibrating bullet. It’s about the size of an average index finger, or maybe a guys pinkie 😁 anyway it’s pretty small but the vibration settings on it are pretty interesting , it goes from low to high and has about 10-13 different settings

After buying this thing , I thought well let me give it a go.

I’m not lying.

It honestly took me a whole 3 minutes to make myself reach the big O, that was technically still before I really knew how to use it.

I used it for a couple days and I started noticing the more I did it, the easier it started getting for me to orgasm , when we did it as a couple and when I was doing it alone.

It’s really been a problem for me cause I want to have sex all the time but my other half who is a lot older then me , kind of unconsciously made me feel shitty about wanting sex all the time.

Never in my life have I heard a man not wanting more sex then a woman, but apparently that’s also a thing 😂

Who knew!


There is only one problem with the Magic Mike!! If you use it too regularly, it numbs you for a day or two

Not completely of course, but enough to not work for a day or two! Which is obviously not what you want. Then again , most woman don’t want to have sex 2-3 times a day. I’ve been told it’s a dirty 30s thing.

What do you think?

This is what i think. Why change who you really are to please someone else. If your a sexual person like me , don’t be afraid to be yourself. Just know when it’s right and when it’s not!

Oh and GUYS , don’t ever make your woman always come to you , if your in the mood…

It can only be good for your relationship!

Making her feel unwanted on the other hand, well that’s the fastest way to get booted!!

Tell her the things you like & the things you don’t….